Quarantine Quotes – 7 Quotes in 70 Days

Well, it has been 70 days since I last went to work and since we have been on quarantine here in New Jersey. I think the official edict came a few days later, but for me, I have been home for 70 straight days now. Don’t get me wrong, I have gone out to the store here and there, but for the most part, I have been home like everyone else. Every. Single. Day.

However, I am very fortunate. I am getting paid through the end of the school year and my husband still has a job, unlike so many others. Most importantly, we and our families and friends have not been afflicted with the virus, other than my great uncle (rest in peace, Uncle Bob.)

One of the many things I have been doing at home is reading a lot. I am currently reading the Bible, rereading the entire Little House on the Prairie Series with some friends in a book club and checking out some random books I have found around my house that I have not read yet. I have also been watching some TV, but not much, and listening to a great podcast called “Unashamed.” Finally, I realized I have actually talked to my friends and family to check in on them and catch up a little more than usual.

I have always loved quotes. I used to put up a quote a week for my students when I was teaching. I think that words are very powerful and can be quite inspirational.

Here are seven quotes that have had an impact on me over the past 70 days from various sources. I did not elaborate on them, for I think it is best when words can resonate with the person reading it better than by someone expanding on it. Plus, these quotes pretty much stand on their own. I hope they have an impact on you as well and make your day a little brighter!

“Practice God reliance, not government reliance.” – from Phil Robertson on his “Unashamed Podcast”

“It is not good to speak of things you have not seen.” – from “Dan” a character in Neither Wolf Nor Dog one of the greatest books I have ever read. It is by Kent Nerburn if you are interested!

“Sometimes you’ve got to do what you’re supposed to do, not what you want to do.” – from Grover, character in Neither Wolf, Nor Dog.

“Well, Caroline, it is pleasant to be with a crowd of people all trying to do the right thing, same as we are.” – from Pa Ingalls from On the Banks of Plum Creek

“Whatever happens, conduct yourself in a manner worthy of Christ.” -Philippians 1:27.

“God needs you elsewhere.” – from my dear friend, Melanie, supporting me when I found out that I lost my job for next year.

“I like being quarantined with you.” – from my sweet husband. I know I married the right person since we are still enjoying each other’s company after 70 straight days!

What If?

When I was a child, my favorite poet was Shel Silverstein. His poems were about silly and unique topics and had a sing-songy rhythm to them that I loved.

I remember my 4th grade teacher, Mrs. Roth, would read us poems while we were waiting to go to music, art or another special. She would grab A Light in the Attic or Where the Sidewalk Ends and would call on one of us to give her a random page number and she would read the poem on that page aloud. I, along with the rest of my class, loved hearing those poems again and again. Some of us even knew what page our favorite poem was on and would always say that number. Many years later when I taught 5th grade, I would do the same thing with my 5th grade students. I can only hope they loved it as much as I did!

Silverstein wrote many great poems, but one that has remained with me in life and something both kids and adults can relate to is called “Whatifs”. Here it is:

Whatifs

Last night, while I lay thinking here,
some Whatifs crawled inside my ear
and pranced and partied all night long
and sang their same old Whatif song:
Whatif I’m dumb in school?
Whatif they’ve closed the swimming pool?
Whatif I get beat up?
Whatif there’s poison in my cup?
Whatif I start to cry?
Whatif I get sick and die?
Whatif I flunk that test?
Whatif green hair grows on my chest?
Whatif nobody likes me?
Whatif a bolt of lightning strikes me?
Whatif I don’t grow talle?
Whatif my head starts getting smaller?
Whatif the fish won’t bite?
Whatif the wind tears up my kite?
Whatif they start a war?
Whatif my parents get divorced?
Whatif the bus is late?
Whatif my teeth don’t grow in straight?
Whatif I tear my pants?
Whatif I never learn to dance?
Everything seems well, and then
the nighttime Whatifs strike again!

Has this happened to you? Are you strong and busy during the day and then you try and go to sleep and the “whatifs” come creeping in your head? I know many people are anxious about all kinds of things right now – school, jobs, money, rent, health, isolation, death. It is a very difficult time, there is no doubt.

But, like the saying goes, there is always a rainbow after a storm.

This change of life has had some positives and I could not help but wonder a few things. It is my own “whatifs” without the rhyming! Here we go!

Whatif we continue to volunteer our time to help others?

Whatif we keep talking with our families and having meals together?

Whatif we make the time to call our parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles and others once a week to check in on them?

Whatif kids start playing again instead of running from beforecare to school to aftercare to activities?

Whatif we continue to enjoy and appreciate nature and the outdoors?

Whatif we keep playing board games and card games as a family?

Whatif we continue cooking meals at home and doing more things with our hands?

Whatif?

Whatif we continue to pray every single day, asking for God’s help and guidance and thanking Him for keeping our families safe? For the roof over your head? For the food on your table? For the people in your home?

Whatif we keep praying for others?

Whatif we realize that our time on earth is limited?

Whatif we continue to realize the heroism and importance of our nurses, doctors, policemen, military and first responders?

Whatif we finally realize the difference between a need and a want?

What if we continue to be patient with others?

Whatif?

Whatif, when all of this is over, our world is a better place?

“Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.

Romans 5:3-4

What if This Pandemic Happened 30 Years Ago?

Last Sunday, we had a virtual Sunday dinner with my husband’s parents, brother, aunts, uncles and cousins. Some of us were eating and drinking wine and others were hanging out in the sunshine, all at our own homes. We all appreciated that we could see each other without being near each other.

There are two things that were said during that video chat that have stuck with me this week. One was a question from our uncle, “What if this happened 30 years ago?” and another was a statement made by another participant, “the economy can’t get any worse than it is.”

It seems to me that both the question and the statement, though made at different points in our conversations, are related. If this HAD happened 30 years ago, things would be much different and SO. SO. SO. MUCH.WORSE!

This is due to one main reason – back in 1990, the vast majority of us did not have the internet. Imagine being told to stay at home all these weeks and not have the internet?? The economic impact would be 10 times worse than it is now. Or more.

Think about it.

People who are now working from home would not have been able to do so which would have led to a huge increase in unemployment, much more than there is now and those numbers are staggering. Last I heard, 1 in 10 Americans are out of work.

We would not be able to order our food and essential items from grocery stores, restaurants and retail giants (another tremendous hit to the economy with those delivery drivers’ jobs lost) let alone have them delivered to our doorsteps. We would have had to defy the stay-at-home orders and curfews to fulfill our basic needs unless of course, you were a farmer or someone who lived off the land. That kind of life gets more and more appealing to me as I get older!

We would not be able to video chat or do the now famous virtual happy hours to stay connected with our family and friends. And there would be no social media! Gasp! Imagine going through this without Facebook, Instagram or Twitter? How would we live??????????? Oh the horror!!!!!!! (Wait, I actually gave up social media for Lent and survived. But I am not going to lie. I missed seeing how my friends and families are doing during this challenging time.)

Only a few of us would have had cell phones. The cell phone camera came out in 2002 and the first Smartphone did not come out until 2003 so there would be no sending pictures, no Facetiming, no texting, no apps to make our lives easier and more entertaining. Nothing! We would have had to go back calling each other on the phone, writing letters and playing board and card games.

There was no Netflix or Hulu or Video on Demand or anything like that! We would have had to break out our VHS tapes or those famous shaky home videos (DVDs did not come out until 1996.) And, we had but a fraction of the channels that we have now.

Music would have been limited to what we already had in our homes. We would have had to listen to the radio, records and our cassette tapes on our boxes and walkmans. Only a few of us would have had CDs at that time and there was no such thing as downloading music! We would have been screaming “I want my MTV!” and would have fought with our parents and siblings for control of the remote.

There would not be access to online workouts on Youtube or fitness apps. Since the gyms all closed, we would have had to pull out our old workout tapes or rely on the 30 minute workout shows (like Bodies in Motion and Getting Fit with Denise Austin).

We would have had to totally skip our doctor’s appointments. There would be no virtual appointments. You would just have to hope and pray that you would be okay until you could see a physician.

Schools would be completely shut down. There would have been no online teaching. No pass/fail grades. Nothing. The school buildings and campuses are all closed right now in many states but students are still getting some type of education online. Back in 1990, that would not be possible.

These are just a few of the scenarios that likely would have occurred if this had happened 30 years ago. I’m sure you can think of more. And as for the economy “not getting any worse” – I disagree. The country is much wealthier than it was in 1990 and even during the Depression Era. While I do not like to rely or depend on the government, they, along with other businesses are trying to help in many ways by extending unemployment benefits, suspending mortgage and rent payments, discounting car insurance, and deferring credit card payments for those who have lost their jobs. The economy is like us right now, on pause, waiting to once again emerge triumphantly!

We will get through this – with the help of God, our family, our friends, our pets and…the internet!

By the way, there are people going through this pandemic without the internet. Think about those in low income areas and on Indian Reservations. Many do not have an internet connection and some do not even have running water, but that is a whole other problem and point of rage and disgust with me. How can people wash their hands thoroughly when they do not have running water or clean water? I digress and will save that for another post.

Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.

Romans 12:12

Cannot. Stop.Cooking!

It has been a little over three weeks since since my employer closed and like many people, we are eating almost all of our meals at home. This was not a huge change for us, as we prefer to cook our own meals most of the time anyway. But the ability to order out or even go to a restaurant has been taken away from most of us and so we are adjusting. The problem is that I do not always love to cook, especially when I have to do so. I enjoy cooking in waves and thankfully, the cooking wave came ashore over these past several weeks!

Sidenote: My husband is a much better cook than I am. He likes to play with ingredients and spices and can cook a burger better than anyone I know. He learned how to cook from his mother, who makes food with love and care and no measuring! She uses mostly fresh ingredients from their garden and I have never once, in 13 years, left her home hungry. In fact, I usually try and wear stretchy pants when we go over there!

My hubby does appreciate my efforts with cooking and likes when I try and doll things up, so I have been trying to humor him. We both know I am a much better baker and prefer to bake cookies, brownies and cakes. I love decorating cupcakes and birthday cakes and feel that baking actually relaxes me. However, with just two of us in the house, making a nice tray of brownies is not really a good idea for our waistlines!

Anyway, here is a sampling of what I have made so far:

We will see what the next few weeks bring. I am sure the cooking wave will be going back out to sea at some point. Speaking of the sea, maybe this week I will make some shrimp. Or the mixed bag of seafood I found in the freezer. Or the mahi mahi fillets from Trader Joe’s. I guess I am still riding that cooking wave after all!

Stay strong and stay home!!! Try some new recipes and ride that cooking wave if it catches you!

Some Great Things About Being Home

While many of us are starting to go a bit stir-crazy being confined to our homes, there are a good deal of things that I have started to appreciate. I have been home since March 12th and while it is difficult to follow all of the shelter-in-place guidelines here in New Jersey, I am doing it with a smile! Here are a few things that I can appreciate while being in this situation:

  1. Not having to apply make-up or nail polish! My skin and nails are enjoying the break.
  2. Letting my hair air dry. When I think about the last time I did not put product in my hair or dry my hair with a blow dryer, I have to go back to about 6th grade. I think that’s when I got my first perm. Chemical city! Am curious to see how my hair does with less product and residue in it an no heat on it for awhile. I am thinking it will be much healthier!
  3. Putting on sweats and leggings each day! I know. I know. Some people are saying to keep a sense of normalcy and to get dressed each day. I am getting dressed, just not wearing anything with zippers or that is too confining. This is the most comfortable I have been since I was a baby in one-sies and footsie pajamas!
  4. Doing less laundry! Normally, I would wear three outfits a day – my workout clothes, my work clothes and then my lounging clothes. Not now! I am down to two outfits a day. My husband had his work clothes and his lounging clothes but now is now making interesting fashion choices, as many people have also done, and tends to wear a work shirt for his video conferences paired with his sweats or lounging pants. He still looks cute!
  5. Leaving the ironing board in the closet. Waaahoooo! One of my least favorite chores is on hold…for now…
  6. Allowing the girls be free much earlier in the day. Ahhhhhh. So liberating!!!
  7. Having/making time to read. I love reading and am enjoying the time I would have spent commuting enjoying some excellent books – some to entertain and some to inform (will write about them another day!)
  8. Going to pee whenever I want!
  9. Attending virtual happy hours with friends and family. Thankful for the technology available to us so that we can enjoy a libation and “see” our loved ones each day!
  10. Walking my dog several times a day. My little terrier is in his glory now that my husband and are home every day. He dutifully splits his time lying in his bed in my husband’s office and lying on the couch or in his crate while I am doing things downstairs. I take him out on his normal schedule and add one or two for good measure. It is also a great reason to get out of the house and enjoy the fresh air!

Think of all the positives of being at home, laugh at yourself and your situation and remember that this is temporary! We will get through this and life will return to normal!

May God bless you and keep you and yours safe and healthy today and always!

Coronavirus – A Time to be Thankful

You may be a little confused about the title of this post. Thankful? How can we be thankful for a deadly virus that has infected the world and is taking the lives of so many? How can we be thankful for the mass disruption of our lives? People have lost their jobs. Kids are not in school. Parks, gyms, restaurants and salons have closed. Sporting events have ceased and the summer Olympics are now postponed. How can we be thankful?

It’s easy. We must remember –

In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (KJB)

We have become a society that is used to getting whatever we want almost immediately. We are a “same day delivery” culture and now that we have to wait for things and not get our overpriced coffee or enjoy our favorite restaurant cuisine, we are getting grumpy. We are used to immediate gratification in so many things. Want to watch a movie? Get it on Netflix. Out of dog food and Cheese Its? Get them delivered tomorrow from Amazon Prime.

This pandemic is horrible but it could be way worse – think Anne Frank and Laura Ingalls Wilder, two of my personal favorites that we can all learn from.

Anne Frank. I would hope all of you know who she was, but just in case you do not, she was one of the many unfortunate victims of Adolph Hitler and the Holocaust.

https://www.annefrank.org/en/anne-frank/who-was-anne-frank/

She and her family went into hiding in an attic with seven other people for 25 months. 25 months IN AN ATTIC! They had to be quiet during the day, were forbidden to go outside and endured a great deal of turmoil and tension between the inhabitants, not to mention the daily terror and fear of being caught and sent to a concentration camp (which eventually happened). They had to wait until food was brought to them and there was not much to do to occupy their time in seclusion other than read, write, talk, sleep and daydream. Her diary is still in print. Get it and read it! Or, if you had to read it in 8th grade, reread it as an adult. It is a whole new perspective.

WE SHOULD BE THANKFUL! We, including our children, have plenty of things, especially technology, to keep us occupied during our shelter in place. We have television, the internet, our phones, etc. This leads to a myriad of activities we can do to keep us from going stir-crazy. We can exercise, play board games, card games, video games or games on our phones. We can grab a cookbook and cook a new meal or go on youtube and learn a new skill or craft. We can have games, books, puzzles, toys, clothes, food and many other things sent to us from Amazon, Walmart, Target and the like, though they may take a few days to get delivered right now. Be thankful we have these opportunities to keep us busy and our minds active. Anne Frank and her family did not. Nor do many others in isolation around the world.

Also, think about Laura Ingalls Wilder and other pioneer and Native American families who endured The Long Winter of 1880 and 1881 in DeSmet, South Dakota. (If you have a little extra time, read The Long Winter, it is one of her most popular books!) There was a blizzard every three to four days from October to May. They and other families went through their winter reserves rather quickly and although the Ingalls family was living in town (not on the prairie) the trains could not get through the 12+ feet of snow that had fallen. They were soon starving without much to burn for heat, not to mention limited with activities to pass the time.

https://www.startribune.com/the-long-hungry-winter-of-laura-ingalls-wilder/244068281/

WE SHOULD BE THANKFUL! We are not in the dead of winter, though some of our fellow Americans are suffering from terrible weather (my thoughts and prayers are with you). We are allowed outside (six feet apart, but we can leave our homes!)

We have indoor plumbing so we can go to the bathroom without freezing!

We can keep in touch with our friends and families via texting, phone calls and video conferencing. Back then, people did not know if their children, parents and neighbors were okay or even alive!

Many of our children are still being taught online (thank your child’s teachers for all of the extra work they are putting in planning quality lessons!) Schools were closed for months during that long, snowy winter.

In addition, we have heat, we have food and we can get our food and supplies delivered (though it is taking much longer now). We can run to the store if needed. We can pick our food up curbside. Natives and pioneer families did not have that luxury.

Finally, we should be thankful that we have what so many of us lacked before – extra time! While many, like my husband seem to be working MORE hours, a lot of us now have those precious extra hours in a day. So many of us have said, ” I don’t have time to…” Well, now you do! Try something new. Here is a quick list of ideas for adults and children:

  1. Exercise – many of us are turning to comfort foods during this time and may put on some extra pounds. Try a new workout online or download one of the many fitness apps out there. There are also great workouts on Pinterest and Youtube. Two of my favorite workouts on Youtube – HASFit and Heather Robertson. Both will get your hearts pumping and put a smile on your face at the end! Exercise is such a great way to relieve stress! And kids will enjoy it as well!
  2. Walk your dog several times a day. It gets you out and moving and your four-legged friend will love it!
  3. Take inventory of your fridge and freezer and meal prep. Chop those veggies, make the soup you only had time for on Sundays, plan your meals for the week. Try a new recipe. Include the kids! Depending on their ages, let them plan a meal one or two nights a week. Don’t forget baking a healthy dessert! Or even a not-so-healty one!
  4. Go on Youtube and learn how to do almost anything! Draw, paint, crochet, knit, change a tire, sculpt…you name it!
  5. Clean, organize, and figure out what you do not use, like or need and donate it to those less fortunate. Many organizations will come right to do your door to get your donations. My personal favorite – http://www.purpleheartpickup.org
  6. Read a book or one of the many magazines you may have stacked on a shelf.
  7. Write a poem, a song, a novel, a short story, anything to get your thoughts on paper.
  8. Teach your dog a new trick. Pets are loving having everyone home with them!
  9. Start a gratitude journal and list all of the good things that are happening in your life and in your homes.
  10. Relax and veg out with your favorite shows. It’s okay to do that too!

We need to be thankful in these trying times. I know it is not easy. I know it is tough being cooped up at home, especially for those with a big family in small quarters, but IT IS TEMPORARY. It will not last forever. We are so used to having things immediately gratify us, that it is tough to be patient and make these changes. However, to truly triumph over all of this, we need to make the best of it and be thankful for our health, the time we have together and all of the many opportunities we have to keep our brains and bodies active.

We are a part of history. We will look back one day and tell our children and grandchildren all about the time the entire world shut down trying to fight this horrible illness. We will tell them how most businesses closed. How there were no sporting events or shows in theaters or concerts. But I hope and pray that those conversations will be dominated by the things we did, made, learned and created while we were home.

I pray for all of you who are reading this to stay safe and healthy. I hope that you have a grateful heart and stay positive. Never lose hope. Never lose faith and never forget to be thankful.

As I Hung My Flag Today…

As I hung my flag today, I said a prayer, like I do every day for our military, policemen and firemen. I pray for their protection and thank God for giving us people who risk their lives for total strangers.

Today, almost two decades later, my heart hurts again remembering and thinking of what happened 18 years ago today.

I will never forget.

I will never forget hearing the news that a plane hit one of the towers. I thought it was an accident.

I will never forget hearing the news that a second plane hit and that it was a terror attack.

I will never forget trying to comprehend what that meant and what I should do with my new 5th graders, bright eyed and innocent.

I will never forget the terror I felt when I heard another plane hit the Pentagon.

I will never forget seeing the people running, covered with dust, fear and disbelief.

I will never forget seeing all of the brave and courageous firemen running into the burning towers.

I will never forget hearing that people were trapped above where the planes hit.

I will never forget hearing about and then seeing the jumpers.

I will never forget seeing the towers fall, feeling weak knowing that people were still in them but knowing I had to stay strong for my students.

I will never forget seeing the Pentagon, a symbol of our mighty military, on fire with people running out.

I will never forget hearing of a plane going down in Pennsylvania.

I will never forget seeing the unbelievable heroism of the firemen, policemen and first-responders we saw evacuating people and trying to get others to safety.

I will never forget crying and feeling a deep pain that I had never felt before or since.

I will never forget the helplessness I felt that day. And the anger.

I will never forget.

I will also never forget the mixed feelings of patriotism in the following days and weeks.

I will never forget the fundraisers, blood drives and carts of food and water we donated to at the grocery stores.

I will never forget the prayer services held for those who died and those who were still missing.

I will never forget.

I will never forget the strength and tremendous leadership shown by President Bush and Mayor Giuliani.

I will never forget hearing the amazing rescue stories and incredible bravery of people saving their coworkers, strangers and friends.

I will never forget hearing the chats of “USA USA USA.”

I will never forget the flags on cars, on doors, on homes, on clothing.

I will never forget that sense of unity we felt after.

I will never forget that day or what it meant to our country.

No one should EVER forget.

To Those Who Don’t Remember…

Today marks the 17th anniversary of the 9/11 terrorist attacks. Those of us who lived through it know full well what happened that day. We remember the crystal clear blue sky that morning, with all of us going about our normal day, when in a split second, life in the United States and the world changed forever.

But as I learned over the years, much to my dismay, the majority of children who did not experience that day have no emotional connection to it. They see it as the day some planes were taken over by bad people who crashed them into buildings causing the twin towers to fall.  And while we cannot expect them to truly ever feel what we did on that Tuesday morning, we must try and preserve the impact. The horror. The heroism. The confusion. The disbelief. The anger.

I know not everyone agrees with me about remembering this day and that is fine.  I know there are parents who do not even tell their children about it because it is so disturbing but you cannot hide history.  I know there are schools who sugarcoat what happened because they do not want to scare students or make them feel unsafe.  I think this is wrong. We MUST remember.  We MUST acknowledge what happened that day and how we came together as a nation and how we helped each other and how we we rebuilt the greatest city in the world.  Students today should know about the amazing heroism and sacrifice of those aboard Flight 93.  They should know about the rescues that occurred at the Pentagon.  They should know. They must know.

To those of you who don’t remember – September 11, 2001 was one of the worst days in American history.  You have heard that before. It was so much more than just two buildings getting knocked down. People were in those buildings. People were in their offices.  People were riding in elevators.  People were in restaurants and at the front desks greeting visitors and employees as they arrived for work. There were firemen, policemen and first-responders who went into the buildings to assess the damage and see if they could save others. I often wonder how many of those firemen knew the extent of the damage and yet, went into harm’s way anyway knowing their own lives would very possibly end.

It was more than just planes crashing into buildings and into a field in Pennsylvania. Innocent passengers were on those flights. Pilots and stewardesses with families and friends were in those seats. The heroism on the passengers on Flight 93 is something that should be celebrated, as they likely saved the lives of hundreds of others. What did it feel like for them to willingly give their lives to save others? What about those at the Pentagon? The hub of our military operations.  One of the “safest” places in Washington.  When I heard the Pentagon also got hit, my legs felt weak and  a feeling of despair and terror washed over me as I realized our country was under attack, not just New York.

More importantly, I hope that each person reading this never has to experience what we did on that day, but for those who don’t remember…

Look at the pictures and video footage  of that day- our eyes were wide with horror, confusion, helplessness and disbelief.  As we closed our eyes to try and sleep that night, our minds replayed images of people running away from the buildings, of heroes running into the buildings, of people crying, of dust and debris all over New York, of papers from offices flying in the air, of the hole in the ground left by the plane in PA, of the fires at the Pentagon.

Listen to the stories of those who were in New York and Washington, of the cell phone calls made to loved ones from the towers or from Flight 93 – our ears were filled with the sounds of our countrymen in distress, of those who knew they were doing to die, of buildings collapsing with people still in them, of sirens, of voices yelling directions.  And the most poignant for me – the wails and cries of despair. They hurt my heart to this day.

Touch a friend or person you love – strangers were grabbing and hugging each other as they went through the worst experience of their lives. They helped each other to safety. We hugged our friends, families and coworkers, yearning for some type of comfort.

We must remember.

Americans rebounded, as we always do, from that devastating and cowardly attack on the innocent and on our country. But we are Americans. We are resilient. We are compassionate. We are determined. We are strong.

But on that day, we did not feel strong. We felt despair, we felt horror, we felt helpless, we felt confusion, we felt shock, we felt anger. We felt vengeful. So for those who don’t remember, I beg you to try. We cannot forget.

The songs below are three great summations of how many of us felt that day. I encourage everyone to listen to them.  I chose the live versions of all three songs so that you can see and feel the emotion these men put into them.  May God bless all of those who perished that day, all those who lost loved ones, and all of our troops past and present defending our freedom.  We will never forget.

 

 

Always Ready

Brrrrrrrrr!! Whoooooshhhh!!  After yesterday’s temperature reaching almost 70 degrees, winter has returned. It is in the 40s with wind gusts up to 45 miles an hour.  I was up half the night listening to the wind attempting to shake the house and everything in it.  When I woke up and looked out the window, tree limbs were being tossed around like a ship in a storm. I said a silent prayer that none of the large branches would come down on our cars or house! So far, so good!

This wacky weather in New Jersey is making outdoor activities difficult.  I try to walk our dog, Scraps, every day at least once a day.  He is a terrier with a lot of energy! This morning, as I listened to the winds and watched the weather on TV, I pondered whether or not I would be taking him today.  Scraps seemed to sense my hesitation and almost immediately, his ears perked up, his tail started to wag and he looked at me with an expression of pleaing, “It’s not that cold! I’m ready! Let’s go!  It’s just a little wind! What’s the problem?”

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So, as usual, I gave in and bundled up. There seemed to be enough time between the strong gusts that I could at least take him around the block.  I opened the door and put out the American flag as I do every morning, making sure it was secure. Scraps was anxious to get started and started to pull to being the walk. Almost immediately, I regretted not putting on my gloves.  It felt like it was in the 30’s again.  Ugh! I pulled my hat down further over my ears and started moving.

The neighborhood was littered with garbage cans since today was garbage day. I shivered a little and pulled up the zipper on my coat to my chin. BRR!  Scraps, however, was trotting along without a care in the world.  Wind? No problem!  Cold temps? Don’t be a sissy!

A few minutes into our walk, a gust of wind came and blew the top of a garbage can a few feet in front of us, just missing him. Scraps pinned his rather large ears back (I guess to keep the wind from blowing in them) stopped, lifted his leg on a tuft of grass and kept right on going, happy as ever.  For a split second, I considered turning around but then realized that Scraps is like that in any kind of weather. He is always ready to go for a walk. It could be 100 degrees out with 90% humidity (and yes, it does get that hot in NJ) and he is ready to go.  It could be snowing and even sleeting out, but he is always, always ready for a walk.  If I was willing to take him, I bet he would even walk in the pouring rain (well, maybe with his coat on).

I once read an article that we should try and be more like our dogs. It focused on their love of play, long amounts of sleep and being a loyal companion.  I would like to add one more thing to the list – to always be ready to walk/exercise and truly enjoy it as much as he does!  No matter what!

 

Whoops!

Earlier today, I wrote a post about Lent.  In it, I described the three disciplines of Lent (fasting, prayer and almsgivig) and what I was going to do to fulfill them.  I am not sure why I felt the need to share what I was going to do, other than to possibly inspire others to participate more in the prayer and almsgiving and not just the fasting.  However, after doing more research on Lent and arguments for and against observing it, I came across this from the New Testament:

 “Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be            seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in              heaven.

“So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with  trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full.

But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing,

so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.”             

                                                                                                            -Matthew 6:1-4

Whoops! After reflecting on this scripture, I decided to delete the earlier post since it pretty much went against this. Whatever we do or do not do in Lent and in life is between each of us and God.   I guess sometimes we just need a reminder. At least I do!